The Woman has grown from a relation where she was the female amateur Chili eater and where some degree of stability and order was in place. All the activities in her life has slowly made her rise to Stage 4 and this is a danger to the relationship as both of you are very competitive and extroverted which can create conflicts especially in the area of sexuality where she might have problems letting go of her need to dominate. This will be an unequal relationship and the end will be visible sooner than later.